I DO think when it IS your time that both ur parents and anyone you ever loved will be there to greet U with open arms...just not YET. ;o) Hugz

dancingwater, you're far from crazy. You are at a difficult crossroads for both yourself and your Mom. Please give her "permission" to release your hand and take hold of her Mom and Dad to ease her passage.I was 3 months pregnant with my son when my Mom passed due to terminal Cancer. Be at peace with the process and your Mom will do the same. My prayers go with you both.

I am so sorry to hear about your mom, you will both be in my thoughts and prayers. Although I am a sensitive, there have been times that other people I know have had visitations from people who have passed on while I was in the room and I felt nothing... I think your father may have just been spending his energy on helping your mom. Best of luck to the both of you during this difficult time.